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Are You My Mother?

It’s a weird question to ask when you know who your mother is, but still long for that pivotal figure in your life.

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On Race & Identity

How much does our skin color and the ethnicity(s) we identify with impact our experiences? Our opportunities?

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Meet Cute IRL

For Valentine’s Day, I thought I’d share my real-life meet cute – aka how I met my husband.

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Say What You Need to Say

Don't wait for your own come-to-Jesus moment before telling those you love how you (specifically) feel.

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What I Know About Grief (Could Fill a Book)

I know enough about grief to know this: there’s no roadmap. No handbook. Not even a one-size-fits-all grief gift that can make everyone feel better. Instead, it’s one of those MFing things that continues to morph and shape shift with every person and experience – kind of like a frenemy or really desperate Tinder date.

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When Claymation Schools You on Life

Isn’t it humbling to receive advice in the unlikeliest of places – from the unlikeliest of clay figurines? Yes, you read that right. My most enlightening moment as of late came from General Ticker, a toy soldier character in Rudolph’s Shiny New Year that sports a clock for a chest.

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